Fantasizing about having a penis? Wishing you could fill that void yourself? Always eager to explore strap-on or harness play? As a source of female pleasure, there's nothing more respected and recognized than strap-ons. When it comes to female self-pleasure, it's as simple as using your hands: inserting a phallic object into the vagina and manipulating it for greater pleasure. They are both practical and straightforward.
We are living in the golden age of strap-ons, with sex toy shops offering a plethora of options online and locally. Smooth steel, colored silicone, and various shapes and sizes of glass are just the tip of the iceberg. Perhaps you've already made a purchase and embarked on a new journey of self-exploration through self-pleasure and orgasms.
Some may think that masturbation is inherently bad, but you're actually mistaken. It's beneficial for you. Masturbating and understanding what you enjoy and need in the bedroom is healthy. It not only helps alleviate stress but also enhances the quality of your sex life. When you understand your own desires, you can assist your partner in fulfilling their fantasies, leading to more orgasms for you. Strap-ons are an excellent complement to enhance your.
Choosing the Right Dildo
When selecting the perfect dildo for your needs, you'll encounter a variety of shapes, sizes, and types. The key is to choose a product that aligns with your desires and preferences.
If you enjoy firm stimulation, opting for a dildo made of hard glass, steel, or wood can be meaningful. For those seeking additional visual fantasies, animal or monster-themed dildos might be the choice. If you savor the feeling of being stretched, consider choosing a larger or inflatable dildo. An intriguing study revealed that the sizes of most commercially available dildos align with the average male penis size, suggesting that the average size is what most women seek. If you desire clitoral stimulation during insertion, a vibrating dildo makes sense.
If you truly want to explore how to achieve intense and satisfying orgasms, selecting a curved dildo is a great option. The curved design allows for precise stimulation of your G-spot during penetration. Therefore, if you're aiming for sexual climax, a curved dildo will be your ideal companion!
Before you begin
When you are alone, you need some privacy to relax, feel comfortable, and embrace a sensual atmosphere. Learning how to properly use a dildo takes time. If you've ever dimmed the lights, closed the blinds, and lit candles before engaging in intimacy, you know how much the change in ambiance can enhance the mood. The same principles apply when you are alone. Light a candle, play some sexy music, and dim the lights if it helps. Make sure the door is securely locked so you don't have to worry about interruptions.
Using a dildo and accurately stimulating the G-spot may lead to female ejaculation, so if you can alleviate some concerns before starting (such as adding a towel), you may feel more comfortable.
Don't forget to warm up
Before you start using the dildo, some warm-up may be necessary. This includes manual stimulation and reaching one or two orgasms. This way, when you're in a pleasurable mood, you can find the most effective ways to enjoy yourself.
If you can't produce enough natural lubrication, consider using some lubricant. Reported benefits of using lubricant include increased sexual arousal, enhanced pleasure and libido, making intimacy more interesting, and increasing physical comfort during sexual activities. Once you are fully warmed up, you can try some very enjoyable techniques.
Find the right position
Now it's time to begin. Before trying any other positions, lie on your back and place a pillow under your hips. This will tilt your pelvis upward, making it easier to reach the G-spot.
This is the best starting position because, as we mentioned, it can immediately stimulate the G-spot, and it's relatively easy to achieve during your first attempt. Other positions are also effective, but this position will help you stimulate the right area from the very beginning.
Usage Tips
When learning how to use a dildo, you'll realize that the technique is pretty much what it sounds like. Moving along the entire length of the vagina can provide intense stimulation, especially when using a textured dildo.
Carefully adjust the angle of the toy to ensure it's in the right position, facing the cervix rather than the bladder. If you experience a slight urge to urinate, it might be because you're hitting the bladder instead of the cervix. You can choose from a variety of dildos based on your preferences for deep penetration.
Sensitive Nerve Endings
In fact, most sensitive nerve endings are located in the front one-third of the vagina, so you don't necessarily need deep penetration to fully enjoy using a dildo for self-pleasure. Short and quick strokes mean your dildo won't stimulate your cervix, and it's also easier on your wrists!
If you're lying on the bed, try switching between wrist movements and arm movements to maneuver the dildo - pushing in and pulling out using different muscle groups can help prevent fatigue over extended periods!
G-Spot Range
Inserting a dildo into your vagina is a common practice... but why not try switching it up? Attempt to insert the dildo about 2-3 inches into the vagina, which is the optimal range for stimulating the G-spot.
Now, slowly rotate the dildo while maintaining the same internal depth. This will gently caress the G-spot and massage the inner walls of the vagina. Treat your dildo like a rotisserie chicken, gentle yet firm!
There's a type of dildo known as the "juicer." They have a crank that can be rotated after insertion. In fact, most dildos can be used for this motion, as long as there are no sharp edges that might be uncomfortable.
Psychological Stimulation
Some of us just want to feel like we have a massive cock inside us, and that's okay. While most sensitive nerve endings are in the front one-third of the vagina, inserting a large dildo can provide a psychological thrill... what can I say? You can even enjoy using a dildo without moving it.
It's as simple as finding an insertable that feels comfortable upon entry and keeping it in place while stimulating the clitoris to reach orgasm. Even if the toy stays in the same spot, it can enhance your climax!
You might fantasize about slowly inserting a 6-8 inch dildo into your vagina, or perhaps you want to "stuff" yourself with a large dildo while rubbing your clit or playing with a bullet vibrator on your clit - nothing is more exciting than that!
The Filled-Up Sensation
Many women fantasize about double penetration — having a penis simultaneously inserted into the anus and vagina for the ultimate sensation of being filled up. Sounds intriguing! Here are four ways to enjoy dildo double penetration.
Two dildos, one in the vagina and one in the anus. Dildo and butt plug. Dildo and your fingers. Dildo and your man.
It's usually best to try it out on your own first to see how it feels, and then experiment with your man (or multiple men!) later. Again, a crucial point to remember is to ensure cleanliness before placing anything intended for anal penetration near the vagina.、
FAQ
Is it necessary to use lubricant?
Yes, lubricant is essential, especially if it's your first time trying. Once you've warmed up a bit and know how to comfortably accommodate a penis or dildo, things become easier and more enjoyable.
Is it necessary to use a condom with a dildo?
In certain situations, you need to use a condom with a dildo, such as:
- Sharing the same dildo with others
- Using the dildo for multiple purposes, including simultaneous anal and vaginal penetration
- The dildo is challenging to clean
Can you use a dildo as a butt plug?
Dildos and butt plugs are two different types of sex toys designed for different purposes. Dildos are typically used for vaginal or anal penetration and are not meant to stay in your butt. Their design is for thrusting in and out. On the other hand, butt plugs are designed for insertion and retention, providing a sense of fullness and pressure around the anal area.
Do men use dildos for pleasure?
Yes, due to the abundance of nerve endings in the male anal area, men can experience genuine pleasure. It is said that men who have never experienced such pleasure through prostate stimulation may be missing out.
Can sex toys only be used individually, or can I use them with a partner?
Sex toys can be used in various situations, either individually or with a partner. There is a wide range of products on the market to meet various sexual activity needs. If you haven't tried them before, it's best to explore them personally first to understand your preferences. However, depending on your relationship with your partner, this could also be a good opportunity to start a conversation.
